The poll was for the ladies, but I voted for my fiancee anyways, just to get a bigger sample size. :-)
Anyways, she has never had an orgasm, which I find really sad for her. I've been able to get previous girls I dated to cum with various ways, and although my fiancee says she feels like she almost gets there, she's scared of what it will really be like.
I've tried many things, long oral (which I've made a girl come with before - so its not my technique) and stimulation with my fingers during intercourse (which she likes), I even got her a small vibrator, which she likes for a while, but then when she gets too excited she gets scared and wants to stop using it.
I've kind of gotten used to it, but still think its a huge shame that she's never experienced the pure joy of an orgasm. We've talked about it quite a bit, she doesn't really see it as a problem, but I would still really like it if she could orgasm as well.
Do any of you have any suggestions to get her to go that last mile?
Thanks!
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