It appears as though there may be competing issues here. As far as spanking it to your pictures, that is for you to decide if it is OK with you (by the way, are you naked in the pics?) I would think that it is a big improvement over anonymous porn, but again it is for you to decide. The more significant issue here is that you are not being satisfied with your sex life. If he is spanking the monkey instead of his GF, there is most assuredly an issue there, and you are simply facilitating it by excusing it by saying it is his schedule. If you two were 23 and had met 8 months ago, even if he had that same schedule and responsibilities you would probably be screwing like jackrabbits. There is almost always time for sex if both parties want it.
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