I don't get anywhere near as much sex as I'd like either, so I can totally sympathize (tho in my case, it's because of my b/f's health problems--hell, I'd consider myself lucky if it was every 2 weeks).
Anyway, not like I'm an expert or anything, but it sounds to me that your guy might have issues about intimacy. It sounds like he's attracted to you, and wants sex for physical satisfaction, and therefor with you in theory, but the fact that he chooses pictures and masturbation over the real thing is kind of odd. It'd be one thing if it was a long-distance relationship and you couldn't be together very often, but that doesn't sound like the case.
I hope you find a way to work it out.
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