|
Does sex turn you off, or do you just not feel like doing it? What about just kissing?
Regardless of my actual sex drive, I like to have sex a lot (I know, confusing--but it's true). Sex is important to me, even when I don't feel like having it.
As for fantasy, I pretty much only fantasize when I am trying to orgasm. It's really hard for me to get off without it. Sometimes I fantasize about my husband, sometimes I don't... but otherwise, I don't get off (and it also requires accompanying clitoral stimulation, I should mention).
__________________
And think not you can direct the course of Love;
for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.
--Khalil Gibran
|