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Originally Posted by onesnowyowl
I think you need to seriously reevaluate those you call friends.
I've personally ended friendships because I felt that the friendship came at a cost to my self-esteem, and my sense of self-worth is more valuable than that. You can find friends who will like you the way you are and accept you for who you are, and you shouldn't EVER settle for less.
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for the most part i disagree. your friends are the mirror that talks back and hopefully they know you well enough to help you with your style. i´ve definitely listened to my friends´ opinions and used the collective to find what i´m happy with and what works for me. if i look bad my friends would never hold back but it´s always positive criticism eg how i should have my hair, what clothes do and don´t work.
on the other hand if they are telling you you look shit and have no hope then fuck ´em.
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Originally Posted by dalnet22
When I was a kid and didn't care, girls thought I was a dork, and they rarely spoke to me. But, as soon as I started to care about how I looked, girls liked me.
I'm concerned that if I accept myself however I am, I may revert back to that person who didn't care about clothes and hair and all that stuff. And then the girls will no longer like me. And I will not live up to the potential I could be because I was told I should accept myself whether my hair is part, left messy, or smells like shit.
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you seem to be completely disinterested in self satisfaction and measure yourself soley by how much ze vimmens like you. you won´t get far with this mindset.
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mother nature made the aeroplane, and the submarine sandwich, with the steady hands and dead eye of a remarkable sculptor.
she shed her mountain turning training wheels, for the convenience of the moving sidewalk, that delivers the magnetic monkey children through the mouth of impossible calendar clock, into the devil's manhole cauldron.
physics of a bicycle, isn't it remarkable?
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