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The pretext for sex should always be: "This is a reproductive activity."
You need to sit down and talk with her about your concerns. She can't honestly know whether she's pregnant. If need be, tell her your doctor said you have an abnormally high sperm count.
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Knowing that death is certain and that the time of death is uncertain, what's the most important thing?
—Bhikkhuni Pema Chödrön
Humankind cannot bear very much reality.
—From "Burnt Norton," Four Quartets (1936), T. S. Eliot
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