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Originally Posted by Daniel_
We were happy together to start with, but fought a lot - my flatmates at univresity used to be shocked if we ddn't have a stand up row at least once a weekend.
I believed that the companionship we shared and the fun we had on trips and at home made up for the arguments, the fact that nothing I did was enough, and the fact that in the end she recoiled from my every touch. I was resigned to no longer having sex, and was basically comfortable and enjoyed her company almost all of the time.
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I have not been married, but my last relationship lasted 3 years and does it ever sound like this. We never had sex for like the last 6 months because she would recoil from my touch, and then tell me that I did not make her feel sexy. Basically I couldn't touch her, would get irritated and would stop trying, and she would feel ugly because I would no longer try, I just fed itself. Since we have broken up we have more sex than we ever did dating. Amazingly enough, now that I see her only once a week we are doing great, we talk really well, the sex is amazing, and we can really have fun with each other. So I think we will end up being good friends again, but the sex has to stop eventually, but when it does we still manage to be friends with each other. So I think its going to all okay in the end.