1) People see what they want to see (kind of what roachboy was just saying), and
2) Some people crave drama in order to feel something, anything... instead of being responsible for themselves and having an actual, fulfilling life that does not depend on others for emotional highs and lows.
It's the drama-cravers who see what they want to see (combination of 1 and 2) that alarm me the most, and basically I try to steer as far clear of them as possible. Dangerous personalities that I do not want to get caught up with unless absolutely necessary.
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And think not you can direct the course of Love;
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