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Originally Posted by creepysusie
Sex/Making love is not as super serious, romantic or necessarily as passionate as movies make it out to be. Farts, sounds, giggles and ticklish things happen. The important thing is to have fun.
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Probably the best and most comforting explanation for sex i've heard so far
now kennusion, sleeping next to someone differs from person to person, but it's usually more comfortable with someone you know personally. same goes for putting on a condom, if both of you are comfortable with each other this won't even be an issue. initially i had the same issue, but i quickly realized its no biggie, seriously! sex is supposed to be physically and emotionally rewarding, and fun!
some condoms harder to put on than others, if the diameter is a little too small for comfort - change your brand until you find a good size. also, slow down, take your time. don't feel pressured for time. one trick i like to do: take the condom out, move closer to your partner - skin contact is important! kiss them on the cheek, lips or/and neck. and sit between their legs, or if standing move up right next to them so skin touches. the idea is to arouse both of you, keep the mood flowing. it's a good way to keep both of your minds on track while you put it on. i still do that even though i dont need to.
one more tip, get a girlfriend that's willing to experiment with you! i went from virgin to fanatic in a few months, and lasted for a few years. and it's much easier with someone special, someone you can laugh with if something goes 'wrong'
