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Originally Posted by ghoastgirl1
Haha, the hand on the boob makes me laugh. Even though James and I don't spoon when we sleep, usually after the first snooze he wraps his arms around me and usually one hand is always on my boob haha. Funny.
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It's actually biological; heat-seeking hand. Every man is born, ready to unconsciously fondle their SO's breast. Well, I do it, and James does it, therefore everyone does it right? We are practically the model of every man, don't you know. Like Jesus, but less shiny.
To the OP. Relax. Sex is scary at first, at least it was for me, and in a situation like that you have even less to fall back on because it is likely to be uncomfortable during what would normally be very intimate moments (not all sex is like this, I'm just under the impression that having a support system like a gf/bf to have your back makes things much less stressful). Which would explain the "that was so embarrassing" moments that happened more then once.
There is no science to how you run your life, there is no "bro code" (it's a douche-y word for "decency between friends"), and sex is certainly not paint by numbers. To you I say "be yourself".
Then you say "But, wait..."
To which I reply "Bu..bu...but BE YOURSELF!". That's it man. If you like cuddling, do it; if you don't forget it. If she asks you not to tell anyone, you can choose to ignore that or be kind about it. Just be yourself. I know it seems like a woman would be saying "this isn't the right way to do it"
but women are like a kinder, prettier, better smelling version of us; they are all different. So just... do what you do.
Thats my advice. Adhere by all of these rules! /irony.