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I don't neccesarily believe that sexual preference is innate. A guy who is straight through his whole life might be an "ass man" for years, then a "boob man" a decade later. WHAT you are attracted to changes constantly throughout your life. Why would gender attraction be any different? Makes no sense to me.
As to the initial post, I've had this conversation numerous times. My view has always been that if my SO left me for another man, then I screwed up. What does he have that I don't? If my SO leaves me for a woman? I KNOW what she has that I don't. I'd leave me for a woman, too! Honestly, it's only partially in jest. Two guys are far more similar than a guy and a girl (usually). Being left for something far different than you seems much more tolerable. Now if my SO left me for Rosie O'Donnell or Paula Poundstone... then I might be hurt.
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