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I've been in a similar situation in my first relationship, and it turned out badly. It's better to just cut your losses, cut off contact, and take up new hobbies. You'll spare yourself a lot of heartache and pain. I wish I had taken this advice back then--it would have saved me several months of wasted time.
I think most of us here are giving you this advice because we have been through it too. I've said here before and I'll say it again--the long, drawn-out break-up seems to be one of those rites of passage we must all go through ourselves, and it is a lesson people seem to like to learn the hard way. If to be wise is to learn from the mistakes from others--take our advice.
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If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau
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