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Originally Posted by LCfedup
I guess I have just had a notion that the person you love should be turned on and love all parts of you. I do with him and hes no rock hard body but thats never been something I want. Hes a little overweight and I like it.
I know that this is very long and a lot to understand but I guess I'm looking for words of wisdom from you ladies.
Thanks
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LC- It is very understandable that you feel heartbroken...hearing that the person you love is bothered by the very things you are insecure about is crushing, I'm sure. When you really love someone, you love and accept them for everything they are; imperfections and all....
Never ever let another person (specificly a significant other) make you feel bad about yourself. You should be SO proud of your accomplishments and keep doing them for YOU... nobody else. And just be careful in the future....if he is searching for some sort of perfection-you could lose all the weight in the world and that still wouldnt be enough for him...