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sometimes we will get unlubricated condoms and i will put it on him with my mouth. He likes that
I mean, you were in a very inebriated point in time and given the right person and circumstance, it's better. Try being sober for sex. It makes it much better. All your senses are alert and you can focus on what you are doing (rather than just "ramming into her").
Sex/Making love is not as super serious, romantic or necessarily as passionate as movies make it out to be. Farts, sounds, giggles and ticklish things happen. The important thing is to have fun.
As for the condom, maybe you aren't getting the right kind? size may be a problem as well. One too small will cut off blood flow and restrict feeling, one too big may slip or just feel more uncomfortable than normal. Try an ultra sensitive condom or one of a thinner material. I definately do not recommend not using a condom unless you are in a committed relationship with someone whose sexual background is clean. Getting pregnant or an STD due to stupidity is no excuse.
As a girl, I tell my girlfriends sexual experiences and exchange tips and knowledge with them to improve on my own skills. Talking happens with us, but we are all in committed relationships so we don't necessarily consider it as "a trophy" but rather an act that happens.
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