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Thanks all you guys.
Part of me thinks that porn is no big deal, but part of me is disgusted that our society has the mind set that all guys look at porn, yes it may make some of us women feel like crap, but all guys do it so no harm no foul. I guess maybe this is an age thing or it has roots somewhere else.
As for my actual relationship we have sat down and talked about the issue at hand. He was mad that I forced him to tell me because he knew it would cause damage. He did say that he went about it the wrong way and that the little extra weight on my tummy is the only thing he doesn't like but he is proud of what I am doing. He apologized for not being more supportive and spent a good hour holding me and telling me the things he does like about me.
I know he is a good guy and I guess with the stresses of school and lack of time we sometimes forget to take the time to make the other person feel wanted.
I appreciate everything you guys have said. Its been five years and I don't want to throw it all away over something I guess I kinda already knew.
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Frivolity, at the edge of a Moral Swamp, hears Hymn-Singing in the Distance and dons the Galoshes of Remorse. ~Edward Gorey
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