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You probably wont' believe what I'm going to tell you --
All I can say is -- been there, got the T-Shirt - or should I say -- I've
been there a number of times, and I've got a stack of t-shirts ! Ha !

Here goes: 1st - you are NEVER upset for the reason that you think.
You 'must' believe what you see. What you see is determined by what you think. The 'thought's that you used to create the 'pictures' you see - make you feel - upset, fearful, jealousy, scared, etc.

You are innocent, BECAUSE - the actual idea(s) are subconscious - meaning you are not aware of the specific thought which is actually making you feel -- upset, fearful, jealous, scared, etc ...

So - what to do ? How do you get out ? How do you heal the thoughts causing this ? Hang on -- this will ALWAYS WORK - if you give it your little willingness. All you have to do is forgive. ( I realize you don't "know" what or who or why you are forgiving -- and again - that is because what wants to be forgiven is buried in your subconscious.

That is the diagnosis --- Now for the Rx -- a simple Prayer:

1st - the Holy Instant: When ever you feel upset with her - or her past, etc. simply pray this prayer - to yourself -- ' I choose this holy instant for myself, that I may share it with my sister _____ ( her name ) -- whom I love. It is not possible that I may have it without her. Nor she without me. Yet it is wholly possible for us to share it together now. And so I choose this holy instant, as the one, to offer to the Holy Spirit - that His blessings may descend upon us and keep us both in peace. Amen ( as in - and so it is )

Now remember - once you've prayed - you need do nothing. In fact you can do nothing. You simply stand back, letting peace of mind return to you and let the Holy Spirit do ALL THE HEAVY LIFTING for you.

I have prayed that prayer so many, many times - and it has ALWAYS worked. You can soothe a crying baby in a movie theater 20 rows away just as easily.

Good luck -- by the way -- this is guaranteed or your money back !

P.S. - when you pray this - YOUR peace of mind will return - gently -- and you will no longer be afraid - etc -- in this same way ever again. It returns you to your real loving thinking, the think you used above to describe how much you like this girl, and what you naturally like about her.

P.P.S. a VERY helpful thing to do - in a sharing way - is to ask your partner to help you in a very easy way for her. Ask her to alert you - if she perceives you getting creepy ( code for upset, fearful, scared, etc ...) -- but not to analyze you -- but rather to simply ask you this truly empowering question:

'Honey - how do you feel right now ?" --- that will gently remind you that the black ink of fear is starting to roll through your veins - and it can once again be gently derailed with another 'Holy Instant' Prayer.