I have told her pretty much what I've said on here the last time I visited. It's frustrating because I keep hoping that a little bit more time will resolve things and I hate bringing up old issues like this rather than just moving forward. Like I said, I don't know how to alleviate the issues; they're over and done in her life, but I've just been exposed to them and the issue is on my shoulders, not hers.
I guess I would figure that anything between me and a therapist would stay there. My question was more if that's an avenue I decide to pursue, should I tell my GF first or just do it as my own personal endeavor without needing to mention it?
I'm sure that a week of training last week, a week of drinking/partying, and a general lack of sleep the last week and a half haven't done anything to help, either.
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