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I would not mind communicating with her about how I feel, no holds-barred...but, what is there to communicate about? She told me some things about her past, and it seems like it's up to me to accept it -- I can ask more questions and more details, but that could be problematic, too, so I've tried to limit it to only what I felt was important to our relationship. Any clarification on that, though, would be appreciated -- what would be good to talk to her about? I am going to visit her this weekend for a number of days, and I am very excited to see her, but worried that this sort of stuff will come up, and I'm not sure how to approach it.
As for therapy or talking with someone, I think it would be helpful (self-talk only does so much, as my rationality is sometimes beaten by irrationality), but should I tell her? I don't want to betray her trust in any way by telling someone her personal things. I guess I just want to be relaxed and happy with her and do what I can to do so, but don't know how to go about solving myself, if that makes sense.
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