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Don't stay with her because you feel sorry for her, or you feel like she would crumble without you. She will never thank you for it. She is stronger than you know, certainly. We are all alone and we have all been alone before someone came along, and survived. Also, don't tell her you felt sorry for her. She will surely hate you for that.
Cut it off and move on. It will suck, but if it's over and you don't want to continue, save yourself both some time and do it. It would be cowardly to waste any more of each other's time and she would only feel used if you told her you didn't know how to say it so you drew it out for her sake...pfff
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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