Starkizzer

Coming from a family where cheating has run rampant and seeing the ones I love so distraught and the turmoil it causes, cheating is a deal breaker.

For me there are no apologies or second chances. I realize that some people do have different types of relationships and thats what makes the world wonderful and interesting. But for me I need the stability, since much of my life has been unstable, and those ground rules were discussed very early on.

Plus, he's a knife lover and has therefore given me several as presents so I playful remind him that by giving me the tools we have come to an unspoken agreement that if he cheats I can use them to ensure he will never cheat again...mwuahahah!

In all seriousness, I believe that if you don't love a person anymore than have the common courtesy to tell them first. At some point you did love them so end things in a way that you won't be ashamed of later in your life!

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Frivolity, at the edge of a Moral Swamp, hears Hymn-Singing in the Distance and dons the Galoshes of Remorse. ~Edward Gorey