Early in a relationship you dictate the rules. At the beginning, they have full right to leave the relationship at a moments notice, and so do you. You really don't owe anything to each other, so you can make the rules. After it starts getting intimate... then the "standard" rules begin to apply unless otherwise stipulated.
So you, and your friend, are both right.
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