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Originally Posted by Giant Hamburger
I preach a scorched earth policy when ending relationships.
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Oh GH, I've missed you so!
I'm going to chime in with everyone else. It is possible to be friends afterward, but I'd set it all out on the table for her before hand. "I care about you and think you are a good person. I had hoped you would grow stronger and more self confident, but I'm not seeing it. I try to support you and you fail to see that. For those reasons, I think we need to end this relationship."
Not terribly well worded, but I think it's important she knows why you feel the need to leave. It could open up a dialogue between you two or it could cause her to hate you (irrationally, in my opinion). Be prepared for either.