It's pretty obvious that if you're going to break this off then a clean break is the way to go. But I can't help but to wonder, as your original post doesn't make any mention of it - have you two worked on any of these issues or at least discussed them?
And also, codependency has the potential to ruin not only your romantic relationships but your friendships as well and I don't doubt for a second that it very well may be the source of some of the discontent in your relationship but also in the difficulty that you both have in building successful friendships outside of your relationship.
Good luck.
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