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Originally Posted by internetsam
She likes to often say how things won't be in the future as they are now (sexually) - as if to say it's unusually often.
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Here's what I think - It's been two years. In the beginning, things were love-dovey and you wanted to please each other. Now, you're starting to realise that her sex drive far from matches yours. She's probably realized the same. Two years is a pretty good benchmark for reassessing a relationship because at that point, there are no more masks.
The fact that she decides to throw into conversation that in future you shouldn't expect as much sex, probably means that, while in the beginning, she was happy to have sex a lot (because you didn't know each other so well or as deeply), now she'd rather not all the time, or most of the time (because she associates sex with other parts of the relationship). She's probably worried about your expectations of her and is thinking that down the line you may not be happy with how she really, truly feels about sex, and the frequency of it. That, and of course there may be underlying issues there also (there always are), such as there is some other area of your relationship she's unhappy about so her mood for sex is waning, or there may be a sexual issue also (physical or psychological).