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Originally Posted by inBOIL
It sounds like you haven't communicated effectively with her. Ask her if she does intend to curtail the sex, and if so, why. There are a million possible reasons why she might be unhappy with your current frequency, and just as many potential solutions. It's not unreasonable to want to avoid having your sex life go downhill, but to do so you need to make sure the two of you are on the same page.
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I couldn't have said it better
There are a few different ways to bring this topic up and figure things out with her. I think (as it has worked for me in the past) that the most direct approach works best.
My advice? Go up to her and say something like this:
"Hey, I was wondering about something you said, can we talk about it?"
Its a good start to a problem that needs resolving. And the talk feels more mutual than accusatory...balance and equal grounds are good. :P
I'm not sure if anyone else agrees with me on that approach, but if I was in a situation like yours, that's how I would do it.
Oh, and of course, be honest during the conversation. Don't chicken out and agree just to agree with her when you actually don't. If you two are meant to be together, any problem can be solved with good communication, and understanding. ^_^