Originally Posted by lotsofmagnets

same situation opposite perspective. i´ll save the full story for another thread but me and my ex had an argument and in a moment of clarity i saw exactly was happening, stood up, said "this conversation is over" in a clear, flat voice and left the room. a week later i moved out. she was to scared to talk to me in person but a day or 2 later i get a message accusing me of being immature (a bit rich a 20 year old telling a 28 year old that...) i didn´t respond. 3 days later i started getting text messages which i didn´t even bother reading. after about 4 days these died away. i just realised that dialogue was futile and made every attempt to completely extinguish. about a month later i got a threatening sms from her current b/f and i did the obvious: went straight to the police. i know they would have done nothing but i think this proved the be-all and end-all. we have mutual friends and i know she´s still keen to kick uo a fuss next time she sees me but i´ll have no problem completely derailing her. perhaps i *am* getting a small kick out of knowing she´s a control freak and all her waving her arms in the air has achieved her nothing. dude, there is no winner in this game because i lost a friend and she chose to fret about it.



haha it´s up there as one of my most used words and i don´t even have the okka australian accent. i think my main overused phrase atm is "no dramas"