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Originally Posted by willravel
Depends on the others. If the other person who's opinion I respect I'll take their input under advisement. Otherwise, I generally behave and think in a way that's acceptable to me.
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Ditto.
I'm pretty self-absorbed in some respects; there aren't many people I'll listen to when it comes to changing aspects of my personality/dress/whatever. Most people who try to change me end up slotted into the former friend category. I'm stubborn like that; I'm too self-aware of who I am, and I'm also really protective of myself in that respect as a result of a relationship where I did a lot of unnecessary changing.
So how I see myself is far more important than how others see me. Generally, this works for me. Most people like me the way that I am, anyhow.