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We've never used a safe word and thus far I've never felt the need to use one. But then again, we aren't too big on pain play - some, but not a lot. If there's a problem with a cuff or something...I just say so.
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Most people go through life dreading they'll have a traumatic experience. Freaks were born with their trauma. They've already passed their test in life. They're aristocrats. - Diane Arbus
PESSIMISM, n. A philosophy forced upon the convictions of the observer by the disheartening prevalence of the optimist with his scarecrow hope and his unsightly smile. - Ambrose Bierce
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