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I've only had two relationships where B&D was so frequent a sex treat that a constant safe word was necessary.
In the first, the safe word was "coffee" which was an inside joke between us as to having first played role playing games as foreplay when we met at a coffeehouse.
In the second, the word was "Joshua," which was the name of her previous boyfriend whom she didn't like.
I tend to think that good safe words recommend themselves....
Good to have them, though! Smart thinking, safe playing!
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Dull sublunary lovers love,
Whose soul is sense, cannot admit
Absence, because it doth remove
That thing which elemented it.
(From "A Valediction: Forbidding Mourning" by John Donne)
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