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I really was never given any reason as to why all of a sudden my ex just booted me out the door, even after we had an agreement. I of course put up a fight about this and lost.
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you gave him the reason. if someone dropped a bomb on me like that i'd rather sleep on a park bench in the snow than the same building. a whole week, and i might go crazy.
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So there I was, crying to my best friend on the phone (who lives 4 hours away), packing as many things as I could, wondering where I was going to go. I only had a few hours to be out of there. I literally got in my car full of clothes and drove around trying to figure out where the hell I was going to sleep. I eventually did get some help from my dad and he helped me pay for a hotel. I really didn’t want to ask because he is in a worse financial situation than I am, but my dad is always willing to be there for me thankfully.
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you could have avoided this by planning for it, so there's nothing to be bitter or resentful about where he put you... because you put yourself there.
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I still to this day have no idea why my ex did such a thing like that. We dated for so long and one would think that you would at least not want to see that person in a really rough situation, or especially put them in that situation on purpose. I have no closure.
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you're quite a piece of work(no offense) ... you break up with him mainly because he doesn't meet your expectations.... then you're surprised when he doesn't meet your expectations AFTER you break up too!!
Because you're the one that created this situation and by that basically decided the course it would unfold, it's your responsibility to provide your closure to it. you can do this by entering a new chapter in your life. don't talk to your ex for 6 months, and go set and accomplish some goals, and then maybe you can put the water under the bridge and relate to each other on a healthier level. i'd reccomend this to him as well.