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I have so much to say but believe it will only be seen as Nastiness or Snarkyness.
Here it is in a Nut Shell. You had Expectations on him that you never told him (According to your post you never did) according to His post the reason you guys split were VERY different.
So here it is. You don't communicate. There wasn't a strong bond to begin with and according to your own word you stayed together just hopeing things would get better on thier own.
So that you know I would have done the same thing he did. at the point it was over according to His post shows that you really didn't discuss it you just informed him that you were done and he needed to accept that.
I understand you are upset about having to find a place to sleep but how do you think he felt having to live with the end of an 8 and a half year relationship. I am sure he is EQUALLY looking for closure.
This Bitterness you are feeling is only that you didn't come out on Top which from the tone (Something I may be misreading) of this Thread, sounds like you are upset because he isn't a mess and falling apart without you.
It is OKAY to be a Demanding woman I am in the BDSM Lifestyle they are call Domme's and it is okay to be one. I am not knocking you for being opinionated and driven.
Where I am upset is that you had unrealistic expectations about what you EXPECTED him to do and that isn't fair.
I am curious however, Did you guys ever talk about marriage and when you did did you inform him of your desire to be "Begged to Marry" him? Did he know you wanted this, and if he did know this then Greg Beherent said it best
"He's just NOT that into you"
Steel
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