For balance, I'm posting a reciprocal link to
http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthread.php?t=133479, and adding the same comments to both threads.
Clearly, Pornclerk and Trache are the couple involved, and it's also clear that both of them have divergent views as to what happened in their relationship.
I suspect that views posted by me and my ex-wife surrounding our separation would look like different stories; it's the way of people.
The death of a relationship is miserable to watch and miserable to partake in. It is never equal - even when people claim to have agreed to split.
People lash out and make hasty choices, which inevitably hurt themselves and others.
I have little to add in the way of solace, other than to say "this too will pass" and that moving on, whilst hard is the only way to live with yourself.