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Rent a motel room until your new place is ready.
C'est la vie, but that's the price you pay for moving on. You destroyed him and you're worried about where YOU are going to sleep?
As to the rest of the story, let's see...
You moved in together in July or August of 2007. You stated that you dumped him "a few months ago" because he wasn't willing to marry you when you felt it was time.
So that means you lived together for maybe all of 6 months.
And you figure that he should be prepared to move to the next step after 6 months of living together?
Out of curiousity, how old are you and your ex? (I'm going to bet mid 20's.)
And b. you got all analytical at a friend's wedding (all your friends are getting married so now you want to get married) and you saw the look in your friend's hubby's eye.
Are you serious?
I'll bet you dollars to doughnuts that your friend and her new hubby end up in divorce court in 2 to 5 years (statistics are on my side). So much for the look in his eye.
You WAAAAAYYYY over-analzed the whole wedding situation. You saw what you wanted to see.
You had a guy who loved you and cared for you (by your own addmission). You had been together for years. (Probably since you were teenagers.)
I guess you could say that you know what you want, so you made your decision. So that's fine, however,
There's an old expression:
You made your bed, now you have to sleep in it.
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