It takes time and distance to heal this sort of thing--meaning you need to give her a lot of space. She has got to get used to you not being there for her, which means for your part, you should stay away from her--otherwise you're just encouraging her to keep dragging this out. Abaya is right on with the no contact suggestion; that is probably the best course of action.
She will get over it--the first one's always the worst.
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