It's punishment for HER if you stay with her out of guilt. Don't live a lie. She will eventually get over it. She obviously had no problem with your relationship so she is getting the crap end of the stick with the breakup. It is downright awful to stay with her without feelings though...it would just end up hurting her in the end. She's trying to overlook that fact in the short term.
Yes it is miserable because of the guilt, but imagine the guilt if you stayed with her without having the right feelings? Breaking it off now is the best thing you could have done.
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