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A few times, I've found myself looking for things to do with certain girls who I've already, frankly, judged to be.... Well... uninteresting.
They're not the hottest thing ever, or aren't interested in what I think is fun, or act generally strange and cumbersome. Nothing about them seems to stick out to me. Yet, I've been compelled to pursue them. I have no clue why, especially since I know a number of fun, interesting, inspiring, smart, nice girls. It makes no sense, I tell you!
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Maybe they are safe. If they reject you, you weren't that interested in the first place.
Maybe these girls are the type you are really interested in but the fun, interesting, etc ones are the ones your friends like and you are following the crowd.
Maybe you feel like you don't deserve the fun, interesting, etc girls, so you go for the others.
Maybe I don't know what the hell I'm talking about.