Some wise words here so far. Another thing I've noticed is the way you carry yourself in the photos of yourself you have posted here, SF. You don't have to spend megabucks, but taking care of your appearance can have a huge impact on your self esteem... I'm not just talking about weight, but also things like the type of clothes you wear, your grooming (hair, facial hair, etc), and a great smile. These are all relatively simple "fixes" that will change the way you see yourself, the way people see you, and because they react differently to you, it has a positive effect on the whole feedback loop.
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