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UKking · 03-23-2008, 11:26 PM

This seems to be happening to me a lot lately.

A few times, I've found myself looking for things to do with certain girls who I've already, frankly, judged to be.... Well... uninteresting.
They're not the hottest thing ever, or aren't interested in what I think is fun, or act generally strange and cumbersome. Nothing about them seems to stick out to me. Yet, I've been compelled to pursue them. I have no clue why, especially since I know a number of fun, interesting, inspiring, smart, nice girls. It makes no sense, I tell you!

The last person, she was very cute. She'd call me every so often, usually at midnight. Even though she's the one that calls, she wouldn't have anything to talk about. And when I'd suggest getting together for like a movie or lets cook something, she declines. Then she assures me that she wants to, just some other time......Huh?
It's happened four times now over the past 3 months. WEIRD.
Meanwhile when she calls up, after some prodding, she'd talk about either how little she has going on in her life, or how fun mine sounds. I'm not sure why I bother to call her or send texts to tell her whats coming up, she'll never accept...

But something makes me curious about her even though I know she's got nothing to offer and probably isn't even that thrilling in the more physical sense. Is it the intrigue that's keeping my attention? Bleh. Stupid.

What about you?

03-23-2008, 11:26 PM	#1 (permalink)
UKking Crazy	Ever find yourself attracted to someone for no good reason? This seems to be happening to me a lot lately. A few times, I've found myself looking for things to do with certain girls who I've already, frankly, judged to be.... Well... uninteresting. They're not the hottest thing ever, or aren't interested in what I think is fun, or act generally strange and cumbersome. Nothing about them seems to stick out to me. Yet, I've been compelled to pursue them. I have no clue why, especially since I know a number of fun, interesting, inspiring, smart, nice girls. It makes no sense, I tell you! The last person, she was very cute. She'd call me every so often, usually at midnight. Even though she's the one that calls, she wouldn't have anything to talk about. And when I'd suggest getting together for like a movie or lets cook something, she declines. Then she assures me that she wants to, just some other time......Huh? It's happened four times now over the past 3 months. WEIRD. Meanwhile when she calls up, after some prodding, she'd talk about either how little she has going on in her life, or how fun mine sounds. I'm not sure why I bother to call her or send texts to tell her whats coming up, she'll never accept... But something makes me curious about her even though I know she's got nothing to offer and probably isn't even that thrilling in the more physical sense. Is it the intrigue that's keeping my attention? Bleh. Stupid. What about you?