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Originally Posted by xepherys
Or put another way, do you assume a non-related male in her house is simply too much temptation? If she wasapt to cheat, she could do it even with a guy living SOMEWHERE ELSE. Just a thought...
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This is a good point you make, and I see what you mean.
However, suppose this guy is straight.
Physical proximity breeds attraction, and even if she had 0 (negative infinity) thoughts of cheating or such, perhaps the fact that she sees that guy so much over a period of many months would breed attraction.
Initially, she has 0 thoughts of cheating - so this is fine- this straight guy is like any other friend. However, you talk alot to your friends, right? Esp. if they are close enough to be living at your place. So they would talk and talk and talk, and eventually feelings *might* arise.
I guess I'm just playing devil's advocate.