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rocray,
Glad things worked out. But for anyone looking at this thread later, I'll dump my dime here to cover it.
Jealousy is a horrible, horrible beast. The simple answer to jealousy (which it sounds like you may have some issues with re: the hugging of male friends and such) is as follows: She will cheat on you or she will not cheat on you and it is solely her choice to make. If she does or does not you may or may not ever know. Therefore being jealous does nothin but keep you upset and possibly ruin the relationship. There is exactly no reason EVER to be jealous, period.
The longer setup to this is that by NOT being jealous, you actully have a good chance of strengthening your relationship. People prefer to be trusted by those that they love. Feeling truly trusted is a major strengthener for any relationship. I used to be a jealous person, and it ruined more than one decent relationship. My wife and I have a strict non-jealousy pact. It's made for some AMAZING years. Trust me, jealousy is never, ever, ever worth it. If she hugs guy friends, who cares? They're her friends. Friends hug! If a straight male friend moved into her basement, you should still trust her even then. Or put another way, do you assume a non-related male in her house is simply too much temptation? If she wasapt to cheat, she could do it even with a guy living SOMEWHERE ELSE. Just a thought...
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