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Okay, I know where you're at because I was in this situation myself. She has (well, had) a gay friend that needed a place to stay for a few months and she didnt turn him down. He stayed in the living room and it got to the point where he wasnt helping with rent/groceries, and overall being a bad houseguest.
What I'm trying to say is that I didnt mind one bit. I knew the guy, he was as gay as christmas and he never tried anything. It's really a matter of trust on both sides. If you dont trust the guy, then let your girlfriend know. We discussed the situation he was in before she agreed to let him stay over and we also discussed rules and consequences for breaking them, etcetera. If you're very worried, talk to the guy, gauge his state of mind and what he thinks about your girlfriend.
Shauk said that there's a difference between love and being posessive, and this is one of those areas where that's going to be noticed. It's important for her to know that you dont mind her having a gay friend, and a gay guy in the same place will not be a detriment to your relationship at all. Letting her know you're cool with it would probably even help your relationship.
But one thing to know. Let him know that when it's time for him to leave for a few hours, he has got to GTFO or else. you know? nothing is more of a cockblock then having a gay guy on the couch trying to make girl talk with your girl while you're trying to get frisky. So, watch out for that, and you should be good.
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