rocray

Ok, my girlfriend and I have been going out for about 8 months. We each live at our parents houses still. I travel to her house two, three times a week to go see her. It's a hour drive one way.

I don't have problems with her going to parties with her friends, if I have to work, I tell her to go anyway. When she sees her guy friends, she gives them hugs, and I'm ok with it, even though a little bit inside, I wish she wouldn't. But I understand... I trust her and I love her.

But recently one of her friends who is gay, was looking for a place to live. She offered him her basement to stay in. I was a little upset, because she would be living with another guy, who would probally see her more than I would.

I love her very much. But having her friend stay for three months is really making me un-easy.

I don't know if I'm being unreasonable. I'm not going to tell her how I really feel, because she's helping him out with a place to stay. I want her to always beable to do what she wants to do without limits and barriers.

This guy just isn't over-the-top gay, like some people I know. I'm not sure if he's bi-sexual or not. I just don't want to loose her. I don't know what I would do.

Do you have any advice? Please tell me if I am being unreasonable.

Thanks.