levite - thanks for that post, as much as i would love to put it past me, it still lingers in the back of my mind
prince - i really hope that is the case, she has a few years on me, probably but she has also been through a lot more than i have. both in life and in relationships.
from what we've been talking about she seems to have a different set of values now, but i dont know if its just a front shes putting up to hide her past.
Manic_Skafe - none of my business, i completely agree, but whats done is done. i found out what i SHOULDNT have in the first place, and i really regret it now. it has ruined a lot of potential that we could have had.
genuinegirly - i would love to share more, but i'm sure anyone would appreciate not having their history revealed on the internet, even if no names were revealed.
but to answer your question, none of those two that i know of... or at least i hope i dont find out about.
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I just wish I hadn't dug myself this hole I'm in right now... Not much I can do now I guess.
I am willing to give it a try, but I'm afraid its going to be a futile attempt at making things work. Only time will tell
Thanks for everyones input, I really appreciate it!