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My sex drive never took a nosedive in a relationship. I can say that after being a man for a lengthy period of time they often let themselves go to a point. Not caring what they look like, not necessarily showering because they are not going anywhere to impress anyone. Instead of making an effort to be romantic, it turned more into a grab and grope becoming the norm for foreplay. Needless to say, this is a bit of a turn-off and led me to become less apt to initiate sex on my end. Hey, it is great when you can let your hair down and be comfortable with walking around in your underwear, not overly embarrassed if you happen to release a bit of gas etc.. A little bit of effort though would be nice.
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