I had an ex tell me this when I lost my virginity to him.
I had said it a week before or so, and then he said it while we were having sex for the first time. It ruined the moment. It also didn't help that I was in a lot of pain at the time. It's really not something to be said when taking a girl's virginity unless you've said it before, for pete's sake.
My SO and I don't say it during. We say it after.
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