it's been said already, but i'm gonna say it in a different way....
build yourself up. spend some time achieving some goals or making something. if you pick something that can be shared, go put it where people can experience it. from there, you'll pickup "fans". some of the fans you won't like, or will dismiss into their appropriate pigeonhole. others you will, and once you dig deeper, you'll probably be able to find something about them to be a fan of. THOSE are the people that might make good friends for you.
but anyway, the bottom line is that people will come to you and you'll find the scene you're looking for if you build yourself up first.
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-my phobia drowned while i was gettin down.
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