I would say there are good alternatives to drugs, even in cases of ADHD. Cognitive behavioral therapy would probably prove helpful.
But she has to be aware and proactive about this, and that will take constant reinforcement on your part--positive reinforcement of good behaviors and good habits.
Drugs are a good crutch, and a good easy way out. Going without them means a lot of hard work for both child and parent. It will also mean that you will have to be a constant advocate for your child. You will face a lot of opposition in your choice not to drug your child. You will have to find other advocates for your child, and a support network for yourself. You must educate yourself in order to be the best advocate you can.
It's not impossible to go without drugs. But it is very hard. Are you willing to do the work?
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