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I agree with JinnKai. It could not hurt to have a little distance between the two and allow your gf to grow up and flourish on her own (and with you). This does not have to mean a permanent break with mom. It could be a time for each of them to get a little perspective on how they feed on one another. Healthy.
My girls would never allow me to treat them or theirs that way, and I would not anyway. After my oldest introduced me to her betrothed (who has a rather large nose) over dinner, he excused himself to use the restroom. When he left she turned to preempt me and said, "Dont ask if its as large as his nose." I cant even think things around my girls. They are always on to me.
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