I usually go for the direct approach:
"*insert future mother-in-law's name her*, you've been treating me horribly for a long time. I love *insert girlfriend's name here* more than anything in the world, but I don't have to put up with your innapropriate behavior. It's gotta stop."
Remember, the more you walk on eggshells, the more she thinks her behavior is okay. You don't want to continue reinforcing this unless you plan on putting up with this until she dies, you break up with her daughter, or you kill yourself.
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