Originally Posted by Cynthetiq

Manic speaks the best advice.

Those "groups" you posted, many people fall in and out of those groups, ebbing and flowing with life as needed. You've spent far more time analyzing when you could just be doing.

I'd also state that what you've posted in this vein in the past and now is always so rigid, and structured. You don't have time for a social life because you've got this schedule. You can't make friends because of this highly organized process.

Maybe you need to take a step back and relax. Enjoy life. Life doesn't fit into these grand little categories that happen from 6pm-8pm M-F.

I'd also like to add, "no one likes you?" Maybe that's because you've not given people an opportunity to like you. Meaningful friendships and relationships take time. If you don't give them time, they don't grow and don't happen.

Originally Posted by jewels443

Think of friendships in terms of TFP. The age range here is huge, we're from varying backgrounds and income brackets, some into porn, some into horses, some Christian, some not.

But somehow we learn from the voice and experience of one another. Everyone's got something to offer. We only have one simple thing in common: brilliance

Don't try so hard to fit in, just be true to yourself, no matter how cliche that is. There are lots of people who don't bother with the borders. You'll find them as long as you give people a chance.